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Why ‘Fat Friends’ still has something to say about body image
The 2000 show ‘Fat Friends’ was recently added to Netflix but, over 20 years on, have attitudes towards body image really changed or have they gotten worse?
First of all, the title. ‘Fat Friends’ probably wouldn’t be top of the list if someone were to make a show about a group of friends from a slimming club today. At first thought, the title may come across as mocking or insensitive but this show was actually anything but. The early 2000s were a time of diets, tiny waists and trying to convince people that Martine McCutcheon was ‘chubby’ in ‘Love Actually’. So, to see a show from this time that didn’t villainise fat people was refreshing.
This show, whilst remaining somewhat of a comedy, managed to delve deep into the lives of these characters. It explored how body image affects every aspect of their lives and the strain low self-esteem has on relationships. This show didn’t take the route of ‘they’re unhappy because they’re fat’ which I was worried it might. It explored how (whether we’re a healthy weight or not) how we view ourselves affects our happiness. Lauren (a member of the group) is idolised by the other members because she’s ‘slim’. She was barely at the minimum weight she needed to be to join the group in the first place and, despite being the ‘ideal’ weight, she is one of the most insecure on the show.
Ruth Jones’ character Kelly was depicted as one of the most confident but was subject to pressure from people around her that led her to join the group in the lead up to her wedding. A tiff with her fiancé on what was supposed to be the ‘happiest day of her life’ was heavily influenced by the stress she was experiencing in her desperation to lose weight and the dodgy diet pills she was subjecting herself too. I think therefore the title is fitting, because all these individuals are connected because they’re fat (even if they’re not, as in Lauren’s case). Being ‘fat’ affects their everyday life, not physically but psychologically. It’s the only thing they see themselves as, it dominates their thoughts – discarding any positive traits that they may also possess which makes them likeable, which all the characters in the show are.
“I do feel good about myself, it’s everybody else that makes me feel bad going on and on about me being fat.”
The show was somewhat ‘progressive’ for its time and included some of the female characters posing for a magazine as the ‘real people of Super Slimmers’, following upset as previous ads had included models and fake weight loss stories. The feature did well in the show, with people feeling ‘seen’ or ‘related to’ and seemed to propose the need for plus size models. The modelling world has diversified since the show’s premiere in 2000, as we see not only different body types nowadays but also models with skin conditions and stomas. But have general attitudes towards body image changed that much? While yes (because the ‘heroin-chic’ of the 90s seemed to get traded in somewhere in the 2010s for BBL bodies) also no. It seems it doesn’t really matter what the ‘ideal’ body type is depicted to be, whether it’s having a big bum or no bum at all, because there being an ‘ideal’ body type in the first place is the problem – and as it’s constantly changing anyway, why should we bother keeping up with it?
I think ‘Fat Friends’ was eye-opening and still relevant.
Recently, a drug called ‘Ozempic’ has surfaced and is rumoured to be being used by celebrities to help them lose weight. The drug was created for people struggling with Type 2 diabetes. However, it appears to be in other people’s pockets and you can tell whose by their giveaway ‘Ozempic face’. When Sharon Osbourne entered the Celebrity Big Brother house just a few weeks ago people couldn’t help but tell she looked a bit ‘off’. Kelly Osbourne responded to people accusing her of using the drug by saying it’s “amazing” and why not lose weight by doing something that “isn’t as boring as working out”. So, if her daughter has been using it, it’s safe to guess Sharon has too, and if she’s still that worried about her weight at 71 years old, well… does it ever end?
In conclusion, I think ‘Fat Friends’ was eye-opening and still relevant over 20 years later and the issues it raises around self-esteem are just as important now as they were then. In the end it doesn’t matter whether you reach your ‘goal weight’ or not, because if you aren’t happy on the inside, it’s hard to ever be happy with the outside.
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Hampshire Harriers mid season review:
The first half of the season has been a good combination of good showing that is close. The Harriers are doing well, but they realize they have to do better going forward to get further up the track. And with a handful of key games in the pipeline, the second half of the season will be the deciding factor in whether they can convert effort into yet another win.
On the sidelines, the club is readying for changes. After ten seasons at Oasis Academy, the Hampshire Harriers will shift to Apple More Health and Leisure in Dibden to play games as funding for the team increases and costs climb.
The squad remains focused on performance despite difficulties they may face on the court or off it. “We’ve played really well, even in the matches we lost this season,” said club representative David Morgan. “We have produced good numbers and we have that to give us hope. Some days, we’ve just been getting close (tied up) and things haven’t gone our way. We also will be moving to Apple More Health and Leisure in Dibden, which we will have to get used to. The biggest thing is that we keep our heads, we stay together, and we go through it as a team. If we work hard and remain unified the results will come.”
The venue at Oasis Academy has been a significant contributor to the Harriers’ growth over the last 10 years. It’s also given them stability and a good local presence. While this is the close of a lengthy chapter the club will continue its quest for further progression and play both on and off the playing floor.
The Harriers expect a good run into the next half of the season as they near critical moments. As that stage of the season comes in, they want the season to continue on well. And whatever obstacles lie in the way they just want to end their fight and finish up the campaign well powered through.
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Bishop’s Waltham Photography Society Exhibition
What do fireworks and iguanas from Costa Rica have in common?
Within the cork-bored walls of a Church hosted an Iris tucked delicately next to a divine landmark of Winchester.
Or maybe you might prefer the TV display with an elderly man thinking whether ‘to smile or not to smile’, or the Sandhurst Passing Out Parade.
With a white dahlia and friendly faces that were willing to greet you at the door.
From DSLRs to the cameras we keep in our pockets, this was the magic that was The Bishops Waltham Photography Society’s annual exhibition.
Boasting around 55 members, from ‘seasoned amateurs’ to those with newly bought cameras, the showcase has been running for 13 years, and is consistently held in the United Church.
The society, starting in 2008, was created by a small group of people who wished to share their passion for the life behind the lens with those in the local area.
For those under 16, do not fret, as the society also hosts a Junior Competition for those living within the local parishes. Those who were placed received a certificate from the Mayor of Winchester.
If you enjoyed a particular photograph, for example, the macro shots of black and white beauty which hosted a trio of unforgettable sights, you may liaise with the creator to buy the print. There were also cards for sale, with a portion of the proceeds going back to the Hampshire and Isle of Wight Air Ambulance.
So whether your fancy is taken by the Northern Lights or a red-eyed tree frog, the Bishop’s Watlham Photographic Society Annual exhibition is one to keep on your to-do list.
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The Cathedral is welcoming a new dynamic
ITS TIME!!
The festive period is truly upon us.
The Cathedral is the home of Christmas in Winchester, and this year they are branching out their events.
They are no stranger to a Christmas concert, but this year they have arranged their first ever interactive concert.
A Christmas cracker concert – a celebration of music, traditional literature and community, personifying the meaning of Christmas.
Lay Clerk Simon Irwin worked with Reverend Canon Andrew Micklefield worked together to create a night of entertainment, they hosted the event as a duo, creating a new dynamic for the cathedral.
The Christmas Cracker Concert bought a new audience in, people of all ages and faiths, coming together in a moment of reflection in a different perspective to usual.
Many people see the cathedral as simply a home for those who follow the Christian faith, but the cathedral are wanting to welcome more people in to see the beauty within, the Christmas cracker concert steered away from the typical sermon.
With iconic Christmas songs, from Mariah Carey’s ‘All I Want for Christmas is You’ to ‘O Come All Ye Faithful’ and a combined effort to fill the cathedral with a loud rendition of the 12 days of Christmas.
It wasn’t just Christmas songs being bought to life but a reading from Charles Dickens’ ‘A Christmas Carol’, the Lay Clerks bought to life the Christmas classic.
They were joined also by the Girl Choristers for some more traditional songs, the audience were wowed by the raw talent echoing through the navel of the cathedral.
The evening was a great success with both Simon and Andrew telling me they hoped to host more events like this in the future to welcome in more diverse audiences.

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