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Why ‘Fat Friends’ still has something to say about body image
The 2000 show ‘Fat Friends’ was recently added to Netflix but, over 20 years on, have attitudes towards body image really changed or have they gotten worse?
First of all, the title. ‘Fat Friends’ probably wouldn’t be top of the list if someone were to make a show about a group of friends from a slimming club today. At first thought, the title may come across as mocking or insensitive but this show was actually anything but. The early 2000s were a time of diets, tiny waists and trying to convince people that Martine McCutcheon was ‘chubby’ in ‘Love Actually’. So, to see a show from this time that didn’t villainise fat people was refreshing.
This show, whilst remaining somewhat of a comedy, managed to delve deep into the lives of these characters. It explored how body image affects every aspect of their lives and the strain low self-esteem has on relationships. This show didn’t take the route of ‘they’re unhappy because they’re fat’ which I was worried it might. It explored how (whether we’re a healthy weight or not) how we view ourselves affects our happiness. Lauren (a member of the group) is idolised by the other members because she’s ‘slim’. She was barely at the minimum weight she needed to be to join the group in the first place and, despite being the ‘ideal’ weight, she is one of the most insecure on the show.
Ruth Jones’ character Kelly was depicted as one of the most confident but was subject to pressure from people around her that led her to join the group in the lead up to her wedding. A tiff with her fiancé on what was supposed to be the ‘happiest day of her life’ was heavily influenced by the stress she was experiencing in her desperation to lose weight and the dodgy diet pills she was subjecting herself too. I think therefore the title is fitting, because all these individuals are connected because they’re fat (even if they’re not, as in Lauren’s case). Being ‘fat’ affects their everyday life, not physically but psychologically. It’s the only thing they see themselves as, it dominates their thoughts – discarding any positive traits that they may also possess which makes them likeable, which all the characters in the show are.
“I do feel good about myself, it’s everybody else that makes me feel bad going on and on about me being fat.”
The show was somewhat ‘progressive’ for its time and included some of the female characters posing for a magazine as the ‘real people of Super Slimmers’, following upset as previous ads had included models and fake weight loss stories. The feature did well in the show, with people feeling ‘seen’ or ‘related to’ and seemed to propose the need for plus size models. The modelling world has diversified since the show’s premiere in 2000, as we see not only different body types nowadays but also models with skin conditions and stomas. But have general attitudes towards body image changed that much? While yes (because the ‘heroin-chic’ of the 90s seemed to get traded in somewhere in the 2010s for BBL bodies) also no. It seems it doesn’t really matter what the ‘ideal’ body type is depicted to be, whether it’s having a big bum or no bum at all, because there being an ‘ideal’ body type in the first place is the problem – and as it’s constantly changing anyway, why should we bother keeping up with it?
I think ‘Fat Friends’ was eye-opening and still relevant.
Recently, a drug called ‘Ozempic’ has surfaced and is rumoured to be being used by celebrities to help them lose weight. The drug was created for people struggling with Type 2 diabetes. However, it appears to be in other people’s pockets and you can tell whose by their giveaway ‘Ozempic face’. When Sharon Osbourne entered the Celebrity Big Brother house just a few weeks ago people couldn’t help but tell she looked a bit ‘off’. Kelly Osbourne responded to people accusing her of using the drug by saying it’s “amazing” and why not lose weight by doing something that “isn’t as boring as working out”. So, if her daughter has been using it, it’s safe to guess Sharon has too, and if she’s still that worried about her weight at 71 years old, well… does it ever end?
In conclusion, I think ‘Fat Friends’ was eye-opening and still relevant over 20 years later and the issues it raises around self-esteem are just as important now as they were then. In the end it doesn’t matter whether you reach your ‘goal weight’ or not, because if you aren’t happy on the inside, it’s hard to ever be happy with the outside.
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Royal British Legion Poppy Appeal 2025 launches in Winchester
“Wearing a poppy during Remembrance shows that you care,” says the Royal British Legion, as this year’s Poppy Appeal is launched in the lead-up to Remembrance Day.

The annual fundraising campaign by the Royal British Legion supports members of the Armed Forces community, including veterans, personnel and their families.
Chris Hayward is managing the Poppy Appeal in North Hampshire & Winchester and said: “It’s a national symbol, and it shows the armed forces community that you appreciate everything that they do.”
She added: “For those who want to get involved, you can wear your poppy, donate to the Royal British Legion, Poppy Appeal, and also participate in the collections and volunteer as a collector.”
The Poppy Appeal remains the Legion’s biggest annual fundraiser.
Last year, more than 32 million poppies were distributed across the UK, and about £51.4 million was raised in donations.
Winchester will be recognising remembrance itself, with a service at the Cathedral on Sunday, 9th November, in addition to a service at Winchester Guildhall at 11 am on Armistice Day.
The service will begin at 9:20 am and will include a procession from The Broadway to Winchester Cathedral, as well as wreath laying too.
Donations from the campaign go towards services including mental health support, housing assistance and employment advice for veterans transitioning to civilian life.
For more information on how to donate, volunteer or order poppies online, visit: britishlegion.org.uk/poppyappeal.
Winchester News Online
How the NHS can recommend gardening to improve metal health

A panel of gardening experts answered the burning questions of Winchester gardeners at a Question Time style Q&A held at St Swithun’s School.
Questions ranged from what soil to use this time of year to why some types of plants aren’t flourishing in Winchester but, as the gardening event fell on World Mental Health Day, this posed another question: whether the two are connected?
Gardening is an example of a “nature-related activity”, which can be recommended by the NHS to improve mental wellbeing under a term called social prescribing.
The panel’s Charles Carr, head of Wholesale Nurseries at Hilliers, shared how he thinks gardening is beneficial to your mental health.
Charles described it as “relaxation” and “contacting with nature”.
He believes it is a very good way of “de-stressing and putting yourself into the moment”.
Attendees of the event also shared why they enjoy their hobby.
Neil Budd, a parent from the school and regular BBC Gardener’s Question Time listener, got into gardening as a young boy but now enjoys the “peace and quiet” that it provides from his children.
He wasn’t surprised to learn that nature-related activities like gardening can be recommended by the NHS, as he says it helps you relax as well as being a break away from work.
Former social worker, Roberta Brockman is an ex St Swithuns pupil who returned to the school for the Gardeners Q&A.
She emphasised how the hobby encourages people to join gardening clubs and enter shows, which can create new friendships for people later in life.
According to NHS England, more than 8,500 people were referred to a green social prescribing activity between April 2021 and March 2023 and findings showed improvements in mental health.
Winchester News Online
Turning the page: Can young people fall Back in love with reading?
When is the last time you picked up a book for the sake of your own enjoyment?
Once a beloved childhood pastime, reading books is now becoming more rare among young people.
An annual report by the National Literacy Trust found that reading rates among younger generations are plummeting every year.
The study found that the amount of young people aged eight to 18 who read for their own enjoyment has dropped to just 1 in 3.
This has resulted in a 36% decrease from when the study began taking place 20 years ago.
Professionals are growing concerned about young peoples comprehension skills, empathy levels, and their creativity, all attributes which are strongly connected to reading.
In an age of scrolling, streaming, and gaming, the appeal of a paperback no longer seems to compete with screens.
But in Winchester, community efforts are helping to spark that interest again.
Local children’s bookseller Jo works with schools to run author events and workshops to get stories back into young hands.
“Authors go in to schools and talk to the kids directly about their books and get them really engaged and I see that have such a great effect.”
As reading habits evolve, experts advise the goal isn’t to fight technology, it’s to find new ways to make stories matter again.
For reading to thrive like before, families, schools, and publishers will need to work together to make stories feel relevant and remind young people that reading is educational in more ways than one.
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